{"id":129,"date":"2007-07-19T22:50:29","date_gmt":"2007-07-19T19:50:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gocmeniz.biz\/?p=129"},"modified":"2026-04-03T12:27:18","modified_gmt":"2026-04-03T09:27:18","slug":"turk-olabilmek-icin-bulgaristanli-esinden-ayrildi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gocmeniz.biz\/?p=129","title":{"rendered":"T\u00fcrk olabilmek i\u00e7in Bulgaristanl\u0131 e\u015finden ayr\u0131ld\u0131."},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u0130STANBUL’DA, BULGAR\u0130STAN G\u00d6\u00c7MEN\u0130 \u0130LE EVLENEN EDM\u0130NA<\/p>\n

T\u00dcRK OLAB\u0130LMEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N E\u015e\u0130NDEN AYRILDI<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bug\u00fcn say\u0131lar\u0131 200 bini bulan T\u00fcrk- Rus evliliklerini Sovyetler Birli\u011fi `nin y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131na bor\u00e7luyuz. \u0130lk zamanlar, Rusya `n\u0131n ekonomik sorunlar\u0131ndan kurtulmak isteyen Rus kad\u0131nlar, genelde mant\u0131k evlilikleri yap\u0131yordu. Son y\u0131llarda ise Rusya `n\u0131n ekonomisinin d\u00fczelmesiyle kad\u0131nlar a\u015fk evliliklerini tercih ediyor. T\u00fcrkiye `ye maddiyat i\u00e7in de\u011fil a\u015fklar\u0131 i\u00e7in gelin geliyorlar. T\u00fcrk erkekleri Rus kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitim, aileye ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k ve g\u00fczelli\u011fine vuruluyor. Rus kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 ise aile sorumlulu\u011fu olan, i\u00e7kiyle \u00e7ok fazla aras\u0131 olmayan, i\u015f sahibi T\u00fcrk erkekleri cezbediyor. Edmina \u00dcrkmez de bir T\u00fcrk`e g\u00f6n\u00fcl veri\u015f \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131yor<\/p>\n

B\u00dcROKRAT\u0130K B\u0130R HATA!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ayhan`la tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131mda duldum, 13 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir k\u0131z\u0131m vard\u0131. O beni b\u00f6yle kabul etti. Evlenmeden \u00f6nce beni \u0130stanbul `a davet etti. \u0130lk geldi\u011fimde bu kenti \u00e7ok be\u011fenmedim. Dar sokaklar, kald\u0131r\u0131mlara y\u0131\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u00e7\u00f6pler, k\u00f6m\u00fcr sobas\u0131!<\/p>\n

Rusya `n\u0131n k\u00f6ylerinin bile bir plan\u0131 vard\u0131r, evlerde do\u011falgaz kullan\u0131l\u0131r. Ama Bulgar g\u00f6\u00e7meni olan e\u015fimin g\u00fczel Rus\u00e7as\u0131 , okudu\u011fu Pu\u015fkin \u015fiirleri benim g\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fc \u00e7ald\u0131. Ayn\u0131 \u015feylerden zevk al\u0131yor, ayn\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc payla\u015f\u0131yorduk. Bu \u00fclkede ya\u015fayabilece\u011fime karar verdim ve 1996 y\u0131l\u0131nda evlendik.<\/p>\n

O tarihte normalde nikahtan sonra bir ay i\u00e7inde m\u00fcracaat halinde otomatik olarak T\u00fcrk vatanda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 al\u0131nabiliyordu. Ama b\u00fcrokratik bir hata yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, ben alamad\u0131m. \u00c7ocu\u011fum oldu, iki ya\u015f\u0131na geldi, ben hala vatanda\u015fl\u0131k hakk\u0131 kazanamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Ahlaks\u0131z kad\u0131nlar, sahte evliliklerle r\u00fc\u015fvetle hemen vatanda\u015fl\u0131k al\u0131rken, ben kuca\u011f\u0131mda \u00e7ocuk oturma izni kuyruklar\u0131na giriyordum. Orada b\u00fct\u00fcn Rus kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 ayn\u0131 kefeye koyuyorlar. Ahlaks\u0131zlar yok mu? Elbette var, ama buradaki Rus kad\u0131nlar\u0131n en az y\u00fczde 70`i normal aile kuran, ahlakl\u0131 insanlar.<\/p>\n

Sonra bize, `Bo\u015fan\u0131r yeniden evlenirseniz, bu yasadan faydalan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z` dediler. Sonunda 2000`de e\u015fimden mahkeme karar\u0131yla resmen ayr\u0131ld\u0131m, sonra yeniden evlendik ve hemen T\u00fcrk vatanda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kazand\u0131m. Ancak bu olup bitene k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan n\u00fcfus kayd\u0131ma T\u00fcrk ismi yazd\u0131rtmad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

A\u0130LES\u0130 \u00d6NCE KAR\u015eI \u00c7IKTI<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00fcrk vatanda\u015f\u0131 olmadan \u00f6nce Rusya `n\u0131n \u0130stanbul Ba\u015fkonsoloslu\u011fu `nun okulunda \u00f6\u011fretmen olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordum. Rusya \u00e7ifte vatanda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kabul etmiyor. T\u00fcrk vatanda\u015f\u0131 olunca yasal olarak Rus vatanda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybediyorsunuz. Ben de T\u00fcrk olunca konsolosluktaki i\u015fimi kaybettim. Art\u0131k T\u00fcrkt\u00fcm ve i\u015fsizdim .<\/p>\n

E\u015fimin ailesi \u00f6nce bu evlili\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Ne M\u00fcsl\u00fcman`\u0131m ne de T\u00fcrk\u00fcm . Onlar `Bulgar g\u00f6\u00e7meni olsun, Pomak olsun, en az\u0131ndan Anadolu `dan bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman gelin olsun ama ne olursa olsun Rus olmas\u0131n` diyorlard\u0131. \u0130stanbul `daki nikah\u0131m\u0131za aileden kimse kat\u0131lmad\u0131, sadece 20 kadar arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z geldi.<\/p>\n

Evlendikten sonra T\u00fcrkiye `yi M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 daha yak\u0131ndan \u00f6\u011frenme f\u0131rsat\u0131 buldum. \u015eimdi hem \u0130slam `a, hem Hristiyanl\u0131\u011fa sayg\u0131 duyuyorum. T\u00fcrkiye `de ya\u015f\u0131yoruz, \u00e7ocu\u011fum s\u00fcnnet oldu. Bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olarak b\u00fcy\u00fcyor. Evde bazen kendimce Paskalya , Noel bayram\u0131n\u0131 kutluyorum. E\u015fim ve \u00e7ocu\u011fum da bana kat\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

ERKEKLER DE AHLAKSIZ<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00fcrkler merhametli insanlar. T\u00fcrkiye kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131, herkes geliyor. Buras\u0131 Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri gibi oldu. Ruslar , Romenler , Irakl\u0131lar, Afrikal\u0131lar hepsi T\u00fcrkiye `ye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya geliyor. Rusya `dan, Bulgaristan `dan Yugoslavya `dan gelenlerin durumlar\u0131 bug\u00fcn iyi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan ve e\u011fitimli insanlar. Bu belki i\u015fini kaybeden T\u00fcrk vatanda\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7in iyi olmad\u0131.<\/p>\n

En k\u00f6t\u00fc soru bana \u00e7ar\u015f\u0131da, pazarda `Nerelisin ?` diye sorulmas\u0131. \u0130mal\u0131 olarak `Rus musunuz?` denmesi. `\u0130nsan\u0131m` diyorum. T\u00fcrk vatanda\u015f\u0131y\u0131m, ne fark eder sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131n, g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn rengi. Sadece bizim ahlaks\u0131z kad\u0131nlar de\u011fil, ahlaks\u0131z erkekler de var burada.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0130STANBUL’DA, BULGAR\u0130STAN G\u00d6\u00c7MEN\u0130 \u0130LE EVLENEN EDM\u0130NA T\u00dcRK OLAB\u0130LMEK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N E\u015e\u0130NDEN AYRILDI Bug\u00fcn say\u0131lar\u0131 200 bini bulan T\u00fcrk- Rus evliliklerini Sovyetler Birli\u011fi `nin y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131na bor\u00e7luyuz. \u0130lk zamanlar, Rusya `n\u0131n ekonomik sorunlar\u0131ndan kurtulmak isteyen Rus kad\u0131nlar, genelde mant\u0131k evlilikleri yap\u0131yordu. Son y\u0131llarda ise Rusya `n\u0131n ekonomisinin d\u00fczelmesiyle kad\u0131nlar a\u015fk evliliklerini tercih ediyor. T\u00fcrkiye `ye maddiyat i\u00e7in de\u011fil […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-129","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-haberler"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paHHlZ-25","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1257,"url":"https:\/\/www.gocmeniz.biz\/?p=1257","url_meta":{"origin":129,"position":0},"title":"T\u00fcrk Y\u0131ld\u0131zlar\u0131 Bulgarlar`\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcledi","author":"Haberci","date":"26 May\u0131s 2009","format":false,"excerpt":"7. 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